ReCraiglist: Update From the Past Three Years

Hi everyone! Sorry I haven’t written in a long time, over three years to be exact. Many of you remember me from my ReCraigslist.com newsletter. I’m going to be sharing my writing and posts primarily here at my new website RyanFinlay.com. It’s actually being hosted on a new software platform that my son and I built from scratch. More on that later! A lot has happened in the past three years and I look forward to sharing more about the journey in the weeks and months ahead. Here is a quick rundown of some of the big events, and you can expect some posts about these more in-depth in the months to come. - Moved from Hawaii back to Oregon at the end of 2017 to help care for my Dad who was diagnosed with Alzheimer's disease. It was a sweet and hard past three years caring for him and seeing him slowly decline. - May 2018 volcanic eruption started in our community on the Big Island of Hawaii. This was a significant eruption that ended up burying 1k homes and wreaking havoc for months. During that, I covered the eruption for 12-16 hrs a day for months in an online community I had built up called Hawaii Tracker. That group exploded and now has 57k people in it. - Facebook made a video about the Hawaii Tracker Facebook Group. - Got invited to Facebook HQ for their community summit. - Started building our own software platform to host online communities and help enable them to be sustainable for people to be in control of what they build. - Started Roseburg Tracker, another local news and information community. It now has almost 15k people in it. - Said goodbye to my Dad 😢 - We continue to homeschool our 6 children. My oldest son is already an advanced software developer, the second oldest son is focusing on video production, the third has a passion for animals & birds and wildlife rescue, and our oldest daughter has also taken up programming and is benefiting from her older brother being a great teacher! Will have lots of posts on how we’ve been raising and preparing our kids for the future. - I continue to work from home, and we educate our kids at home, both of which have been great as we continue to navigate this pandemic. A lot has changed with the internet, remote work, and the future of work. I look forward to writing lots more about that. - Bitcoin is finally gaining broader adoption as an alternative store of value, and I’m very bullish on it. The internet finally has a native currency. - Higher education bubble finally seems to be bursting, and it seems like the final pinprick that started it was a virus that is keeping most college students at home. I believe higher education will never be the same as it was pre-Covid. And lots more. These past three years have been very full and very challenging. There were times I didn’t write because I simply was exhausted every day with work, family, and life. Especially during the eruption months. The rest of my time was often split between the care of my father, raising 6 kids, work, and starting new ventures. Things have finally settled down a bit and I would like to get back into consistently writing and sharing life updates again. This has been probably the craziest year for most of us and I sincerely hope you are all doing well. After you read this, feel free to sign up for a free account on the site so you can leave comments and interact more with future content. I would love to hear how you all are doing! - Ryan The new site can be found here: https://www.ryanfinlay.com/

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It was super to hear from you. I saw your name in my inbox and was looking forward to reading your mail. I surely remembered you and said to myself, "wow, it's been a very long time. I wonder where he's been." You're not one to forget and the great insights you share. I'm very sorry to hear you lost your dad. I lost my mom this year and she was almost 99 years. I took care of her for the last 3.5 years of her life. I will always treasure that, as you seemed to indicate also. Your family has really grown and are all so beautiful, along with the new baby. What a gorgeous family you have. It's wonderful to hear how you are all doing and that the children are finding some direction in their lives. Peace and strength to you all as you move through the pandemic. Let's hope people will get more actively responsible to protect themselves and others. I don't know about your area but I'm in the Dallas Tx area and people became extremely lax, along with various other states. It's surely taking a toll now and it didn't have to be that way. I still see lots of people without masks here, despite it being mandatory long term here. I hope you all stay safe there and I have a strong sense that you will. Best wishes and it's so great to hear from you again.

Nov 16, 2020

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Hi Helene! Sorry to hear about your Mother. It's so hard to lose a parent. Yeah, I will never regret the time I got to spend with my Dad these past few years. They were hard but so rewarding and it was awesome to be able to have my kids along for the journey all the way to the end. They learned so much through the process.

Nov 16, 2020

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I understand completely. I took nearly one year away from producing the Aworkening podcast because I had lots of life events happening all at once - the birth of my first child, moving across the country, changes in jobs from my wife, not to mention COVID. Glad to see you are back at it.

Nov 16, 2020

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Thanks! Congrats on your first child! That's awesome!

Nov 16, 2020

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Thanks. I had no idea how much of a wimp I was until I had a child and needed to operate on two hours sleep. They make us tough, which I know you know well!

Nov 17, 2020

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We are still going through it ourselves with our youngest! Sleep-deprived for the first year or two! What a sweet day it is when they start sleeping through the night haha!

Nov 18, 2020

My Dad passed away last night

My Dad passed away last night

(Post was from October 2, 2020) My Dad passed away last night. Our family was together. Much sadness, grieving, relief, and hope. We are going to miss our Dad tremendously. He was a big source of love, support, and joy in our lives. I still can’t believe that I’m writing these words, even knowing this was coming for years. My Dad was a big supporter of me and my siblings. He wanted us to succeed in every area of life and we could feel that. He was proud of us, even though we gave him every gray hair on his head. (at least us boys did) We always knew he was in our corner. We lost a tremendous advocate. My Dad was a kind man and a helper. He didn’t just help his family, but he really cared for his dental patients here in Roseburg, his friends, his church, and all those fortunate to know him. For example, I had a good friend who was ill and going back and forth from the hospital and a local long term care facility. Being that I lived so far away, I couldn’t be there in person to support my friend. So I remember asking Dad if he would be willing to visit my friend for me. Well, he ended up visiting him almost daily for months on end and the man quickly became my Dad’s friend as well. I’ll never forget that, his willingness and faithfulness to see our friend to the end of his journey. My Dad was a good friend. Several years ago I was living in Portland and Dad was freshly retired with lots of time on his hand. I was often out driving around town picking up and delivering appliances and would often call Dad and talk with him as I drove. It became part of our daily routine and we really bonded over those years. We both helped each other through some hard times. I remember getting ribbed about all those daily conversations with Dad, cause who talks with their Dad for an hour a day for hundreds of days on end? I don’t regret one of those conversations. As the Alzheimers started to progress, activities he’d enjoyed his entire life, he’d all of a sudden just lose interest in them. I remember when our phone conversations fell victim to the wretched disease. We had been talking only a few minutes and all of a sudden Dad just kind of cut the conversation short after just a few minutes and said he better get going. He did the same thing the next day and then slowly stopped wanting to talk on the phone altogether. At the time, I didn’t understand the changes were being caused by the Alzheimers. It was so hard these past years slowly saying goodbye. Dad loved Jesus and is with Him today not because my Dad was perfect, but because he put his faith and trust in a perfect God. My Dad’s two favorite songs were Amazing Grace and Ten Thousand Reasons. I have a video from a year and a half ago of him getting emotional as he sang these words at the end of the song. “And on that day when my strength is failing The end draws near and my time has come Still, my soul will sing Your praise unending Ten thousand years and then forevermore Forevermore” Forevermore Dad! Dad, thank you for everything, we miss you dearly and love you.

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Ryan Finlay

Our Broken Financial System

Our Broken Financial System

Growing up, I was always in wonder imagining how the ancient Egyptians got all their people to give of their time and resources to build the pyramids. Surely we would never be so stupid to allow our modern day rulers the power over us to do the same! But alas, the same is taking place today! We’ve given 12 unelected officials at the federal reserve the total power over monetary policy in the United States and it’s a policy with a foundation of theft. They debase our currency every year which is theft of our time and resources. The wild thing is people don’t even realize it’s happening. There is an incredible level of ignorance in how our monetary system works, and how corrupt it is. And so, most people don’t understand how destructive it is, and who is impacted the most, the poor. The wealthy are naturally incentivized to say nothing because they benefit the most from this broken system. Christians need to understand how broken it is and speak up on behalf of the poor. Read Lyn Alden’s book Broken Money. Lastly, the wicked in their pride, tend to boast of their great wicked deeds. As I was talking to the boys this morning, the illustration of the pyramids popped into my head. Then it occurred to me that a pyramid was put on some of our currency. The audacity! It also says in Latin “annuit coeptis” which means generally that he or Providence approves. No, God certainly does not approve of unequal weights and measures! Our money is built on a foundation of theft and it is entirely a broken foundation! The consequences and costs are far reaching, and you could spend a long time looking into them. Jimmy Song, a Christian brother wrote an entire book looking in to how Fiat currency ruins everything. Give it a read if you’re interested in understanding just how pernicious money printing, and our monetary debasement is. My encouragement to everyone, but especially Christians, is to understand how our financial system works and call out injustices when you see them.

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Celebrating Our 20 Year Anniversary

Celebrating Our 20 Year Anniversary

Twenty years ago yesterday, I married my beloved bride Candice. It was one of my greatest decisions of my life. We've raised 6 children together and she's an incredible mother to our children. We've homeschooled them all with our oldest two graduating from high school this past year. We've moved 9 times in three different cities in Oregon and Hawaii. It's been an incredible 20 years and I'm deeply grateful to God for you Candice! About 20 years and 6 months ago I remember praying to the Lord one night that he would send me a wife. The very next day Candice and I hung out for the first time and we never stopped! Proverbs 31:10 (ESV): "An excellent wife who can find? She is far more precious than jewels." Amen!

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Moses & Elijah Graduating From High School

Moses & Elijah Graduating From High School

Our son's Moses and Elijah are both graduating from high school this week. Candice and I homeschooled the boys all the way through. Moses started his journey of becoming a software engineer when he was 8, and has already started his career and is building a few software startups with me. Elijah developed a love for video production several years ago and has also already started his career in the field. Both boys plan on staying in Roseburg to live and work. Moses, Elijah, we are very proud of you both and are excited to see you launch into this next season of life! To all our friends, family, church community etc, thank you for investing in our boys. 🙏 (This post/video/website is hosted on our Tracker software platform that Moses and I have built over the past several years. Moses is the lead software developer of the project.)

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The Importance of Starting Each Day Well

The Importance of Starting Each Day Well

For the past month or so, a portion of my lawn has been slowly turning brown and a few small patches even dying. I’ve been putting a lot of work into having a nice green lawn for the kids to enjoy over the summer so it’s been very frustrating to watch. I started watering the lawn a second time later in the day because it was acting like it wasn’t getting enough water, but that still wasn’t doing the trick. I fertilized it, put grub killer on it, and spent far too much time racking my brain as to why the grass hasn’t been flourishing. This morning, Elijah told me that when he went to adjust the automatic sprinkler last night he noticed that the sprinkler had been programmed to only turn on for 6 minutes in the morning, which was enough water for a portion of our lawn that gets lots of shade, but not the portion exposed to the sun most of the day. The extra water I was giving the lawn later in the day wasn’t enough to overcome for the lack of water early in the day before the grass would get blasted by the sun all day. It’s very important that the grass get enough water early in the day before the day’s heat. It’s such a good illustration for our often dried out souls. We need to spend time in the Bible every day, which is our living water as Jesus puts it, or our souls will start being impacted. It’s not even enough to just go to church on Sunday’s, just as as drinking water or eating food once a week isn’t enough. Also, I had delegated the sprinkler system programming to my son, but I had not double checked that it was doing what it was supposed to be doing, which is on me. The same goes for our souls. We often delegate the well-being of our souls to our pastors or churches, both of which are very important. But ultimately, we are responsible for taking care of our souls and we’ve been given God’s word and should spend time in it every day. Lastly, like many problems in life, things are often more simple than they seem. If we aren’t noticing the fruits of the spirit coming out of our lives, we probably aren’t getting enough water, or time in the Word. It’s just that simple.

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The US is in a debt spiral. The federal budget deficit in 2023 could go over 2 trillion dollars and it's rapidly accelerating. There are basically two ways out for the US. Hard default on our debts or print money like crazy and buy our own debt, leading to significant inflation or worse. We almost certainly will go the path of printing. Sensing the gravity of the situation, other countries around the world are starting to distance themselves from the US dollar as it's on the path to debasement. Things to watch are oil and gas and other commodities around the world being traded in currencies other than the US dollar and the emergence of financial networks outside the control of the US. There are more announcements almost daily of developments in both these areas. Why would other countries distance themselves from the US dollar? If the US must print trillions and trillions of dollars in perpetuity to prevent default, then the US dollar is going to increasingly lose more and more value each year, punishing everyone who holds US dollars with less and less purchasing power. James Lavish explains the latest Congressional Budget Office forecast very well in the following post. I highly encourage people to educate themselves on these matters as there are significant implications for just about everyone. https://jameslavish.substack.com/p/the-latest-cbo-report-taking-the

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